When an autistic person is abused by their own family
Me and my fiancee are both diagnosed with autism, my fiancee unfortunately was mentally abused by the family of her biological mom, her step-father molested her, her real mom who died in 2008, did not believe her, her real mom's family are in denial and call my fiancee a liar about it, they also say my fiancee was wrong to have met me and that I am not allowed in their home but hello she don't live among them anyone (I helped arrange to get her moved in with her real dad and step-mom, something her real mom never wanted but who cares cause her real mom was a manipulator who cheated on my fiancee's real dad and did everything she could to keep the real dad and step-mom from seeing my fiancee even when after my fiancee became a legal adult, and I have to say I could care less if her real mom's family say I can't come in their home, cause who wants to come into the homes of people that protect pedophiles anyways? not me that's for sure).
21 months ago
After my fiancee's mom died she moved in with her grandma on her mom's side and that woman kept my fiancee prisoner, did not want my fiancee to have a life of her own at all, her mom's family played me for a fool as well, they had the idea that they could screw with the mind of an autistic person, they succeeded in screwing with my fiancee's mind for a long time (the effects are still felt now even after I tell her she doesn't live with those fascists no more, and that they have absolutely no power at all), but those people were not gonna succeed in screwing with my mind.
Her grandma tells me I can buy the engagement ring only to 10 days later threaten to go to court to prevent marriage and lie to my fiancee claiming that in her state the disabled are not allowed to get married without family permission, when she told me that I said "I don't think there is any such law but don't worry, if anyone files a suit, I will countersue, I will win and they will be paying both their legal bills and my legal bills."
I checked into this and found out there is no such law, later her grandma claimed to be guardian cause of being payee on SSI and I told my fiancee that was bullhorn (being a payee does not automatically make one a guardian, cause guardianship has to go through the courts, I even called probate court and found out my fiancee is her own guardian).
But I was like I smell something rotten and I know those people are gonna force her to sign papers she does not wanna sign, she needs to get out of there, so I arranged to get her moved in with her dad and step-mom, the plan succeeded and oh my gosh her mom's family got really ticked off, they hacked her accounts and tried to delete her MySpace but since I knew the passwords and one of them was stupid enough to send me a nasty message from one of my fiancee's accounts, I changed the passwords and stopped deletion of her MySpace.
Those people have barely bothered to call ever since my fiancee moved in with her dad and step-mom which tells me her real mom's family never really cared for my fiancee, but oh well she don't need those abusive people in her life, I may be banned from the homes of those abusers but guess what, they are banned from my home and banned from seeing any kids me and my fiancee have together in the future.
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